Small tidbits and Sparks of wisdom

 Tehillim 147:11 – Who Does Hashem Truly Desire?

“רוצה ה’ את יראיו, את המייחלים לחסדו”
“Hashem desires those who fear Him, those who wait for His kindness.”

This verse in Tehillim 147:11 speaks volumes about who truly merits Divine favor. When we explore the explanations of the Malbim and Ibn Ezra, we discover something uncomfortable but necessary: Hashem doesn’t “want” the strong, the wealthy, or the most accomplished. He desires those who wait. Who rely. Who surrender. Who hope with nothing in hand.

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 A Tale of Two Men

Let’s examine two individuals who both fear Hashem and keep His mitzvot. Outwardly, they are equal. But their internal world of emunah separates them.

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留 Man A – A humble, God-fearing Jew with no money
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Must marry off a child but has zero savings.

His only recourse is prayer, trust, and hope in Hashem.

He does not manipulate or demand. He waits.

His emunah is not a philosophy — it’s his only option.

This is the person the pasuk directly refers to: “המייחלים לחסדו.”

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 Man B – A wealthy, respected, and generous giver, God- fearing
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Gives 20%/50% plus even more to tzedakah an Amazing supporter of correct Shulcha Oruch plus Tzadakah. BUT does he fit above into this posuk??!!

Supports many relatives, yeshivas, communal institutions.

Has a large household and real financial overhead.

Keeps a substantial reserve: “I can’t go to zero.”

Says: “If everyone comes to me, I’ll have nothing left.”

He fears depletion more than he trusts replenishment.

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易 Malbim: The One Who Waits in Powerlessness

The Malbim explains that Hashem desires those who do not rely on effort, calculation, or self-sufficiency — only those who wait for His kindness. Man A fits this exactly. He lives in a space of total dependence, humility, and yearning.

Man B, though faithful and generous, has built a “safe zone.” He gives, but never past the red line. That red line is the wall between him and true bitachon.

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 Ibn Ezra: Not Because of Strength

Ibn Ezra adds that Hashem gives sustenance not due to merit or strength, but due to need. Hashem feeds the helpless baby raven — not because it earns it, but because it has no one else.

Man A is that raven. Powerless, but blessed. Man B is not unloved — but he is not waiting for chesed. He’s preloaded with it. That’s not the kind of person this pasuk is praising.

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⚖️ The Rich Man’s Greater Test

Man A is tested by deprivation. Man B is tested by abundance.

And Man B’s test is greater.

He’s not being asked to survive — he’s being asked to imitate Hashem. To give, not just from comfort, but from courage. To risk depletion, trusting Hashem will refill the well.

If he clutches his reserve, saying “What if too many come to me?” — then he may be good, but he is not great. That hesitation is the ceiling on his spiritual growth.

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 Summary Table

Man A – Needy Jew

Has nothing, trusts fully

Waits and hopes without strategy

Perfect fit for “המייחלים לחסדו”

Man B – Wealthy Giver

Gives generously but holds back

Fears depletion

Trusts Hashem — but only up to a point

May miss the pasuk’s category unless he dares to fully trust

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 What Hashem Truly Wants

1. The Hidden Strength of the Mourning Jew

Many Yidden who left Mitzrayim were also in mourning. As it states (Shemos 13:18):
וַחֲמֻשִׁים עָלוּ בְנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל מֵאֶרֶץ מִצְרָיִם, and Rashi explains that only one-fifth — or even just one-fiftieth or one five-hundredth according to other views — left Egypt. The rest perished during makas choshech. That means there were mass levayos, and many Jews were in mourning.

Yet, Chazal say טְרוּדִים בְּאֲבֵלָם, they were engaged in aveilus, but not consumed by it. They followed the halachos, but didn’t lose their yishuv hadaas — their peace of mind.

The Yismach Yisrael asks: why does the Torah even need to command us to mourn? Everyone mourns naturally. Even non-Jews, l’havdil, feel pain when they lose a loved one. Why then does the Torah codify aveilus?

He answers that Hashem wants us to be happy at all times. So He made mourning a mitzvah. That way, even our sadness is elevated through connection to Him. As it says in Tehillim (19:9),
פִּקּוּדֵי ה׳ יְשָׁרִים מְשַׂמְּחֵי לֵב — “The mitzvos of Hashem are upright, causing the heart to rejoice.”

The Avnei Nezer once said at a nichum aveilim that the word אָבֵל (mourner) is an acronym:
אֵין בִּי לְשִׂמְחָה — “I am happy.”
People asked for a source, and he pointed to Rashi in Succah 25a, where Rashi says:

> “Although one must observe the outward halachos of aveilus, like not wearing shoes or washing, one is not obligated to feel inner distress.”

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2. Prophecy, Simchah, and National Resilience

The Chazon Ish quoted the Brisker Rav zt”l with a deep insight: prophecy only comes when a person is in a state of simchah. So how could Yirmiyahu HaNavi utter the devastating words of Megillas Eichah and still be in a state fit for prophecy?

The answer: mourning is not a contradiction to simchah when it’s done with the understanding that we are serving Hashem. The outer sadness can coexist with inner joy, because it’s framed by purpose and emunah.

The Baal Shem Tov HaKadosh taught that just as Klal Yisrael traveled 42 journeys in the midbar, each Jew undergoes 42 spiritual journeys in life. The Torah warns us (Vayikra 18:3):
כְּמַעֲשֵׂה אֶרֶץ מִצְרַיִם… לֹא תַעֲשׂוּ — “Do not follow the ways of Egypt.”
Don’t be like the goyim, who are טְרוּדִים בְּאֲבֵלָם, lost in their grief.

The Jewish way is different: we go through every test with emunah, bitachon, and yishuv hadaas — and even with joy. Not because life is always happy, but because we know Who runs the world, and that we are part of His plan.

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3. The Meaning of Mourning on Tisha B’Av

This brings us to Tisha B’Av.

We do not mourn just out of sadness or nostalgia. Tisha B’Av is meant to awaken us to the purpose of our existence — to serve Hashem with clarity and devotion. The mourning is not defeat; it is a call to rebuild — spiritually, morally, and nationally.

It’s like reading a powerful novel: the pain draws us in and makes us confront truth. But unlike a story, this isn’t fiction. We are the characters, and Hashem is the Author.

That’s why even on Tisha B’Av, we don’t sink into despair. We don’t call it a “happy day,” but we don’t surrender to hopelessness either. We know that Tisha B’Av will become a Yom Simchah. As the Navi says:

> צום החמישי… יהיה לבית יהודה לששון ולשמחה — “The fast of the fifth [month] will become for the house of Yehudah a day of joy and gladness” (Zechariah 8:19).

A person who loves mitzvos can find joy even in mourning — because he knows it’s all from Hashem, and all leading somewhere.

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Conclusion: Aveilus with Joy, Mourning with Meaning

We are not a nation that escapes pain — we elevate it. We don’t ignore suffering — we sanctify it. Our aveilus is not depression — it is service.

And in that service, we find the deepest joy: the joy of knowing we belong to Hashem, that every chapter has meaning, and that even tears can lead to redemption.

Chapter 1: Ten Expressions of Tefillah – Foundations from Sifrei Devarim

> דבר אחר ואתחנן אל ה’ – עשרה לשונות נקראת תפלה:
זעקה, שועה, נאקה, רנה, פגיעה, ניפול, פלול, עתירה, חיל, תחנונים.

Prayer (tefillah) is not one-dimensional. According to Sifrei Devarim 26, there are ten distinct expressions of prayer, each capturing a different emotional tone and posture of connecting to Hashem.

The ten names are:

זעקה – Ze’akah (crying out from distress)

שועה – Shav’ah (pleading or desperate crying)

נאקה – Ne’akah (groaning)

רנה – Rinah (singing or wailing with emotion)

פגיעה – Pegiah (bumping, confrontation, bold asking)

ניפול – Nipul (falling, surrendering)

פלול – Pilul (reasoned appeal, like legal pleading)

עתירה – Atirah (pleading, repeated supplication)

חיל – Chilui (writhing or trembling in fear or pain)

תחנונים – Techinunim (begging, mercy-driven requests)

These expressions show us that prayer is not robotic. It’s not a fixed script. It’s emotional, human, and raw. There are many ways to approach Hashem—and you don’t need to be perfect, but you must be real.

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Chapter 2: The Diamond Cutter’s Tefillah – Learning from Moshe Rabbeinu

It’s well known that Moshe Rabbeinu begged Hashem many times to enter Eretz Yisrael. Chazal say he prayed 515 times. Why tell us this? What lesson is there for the generations?

Moshe was the greatest of prophets. His level of communication with Hashem is far beyond ours. So what’s the Torah teaching us by highlighting his relentless tefillah?

Because Even Moshe Prayed Like a Human Being

Yes, he was Moshe. But he still pleaded like a simple man. He didn’t rely only on prophecy—he relied on his voice. His speech. His connection.

And that’s the lesson: we, too, can connect to Hashem—not as prophets, but as people. You don’t need to hear voices or see visions. You need kavanah, sincerity, and a willingness to keep going even after you’ve been told “no.”

Prayer Is Work. Tefillah Requires Repetition.

Flying through Shemoneh Esrei without focus is like having a conversation in your sleep. If you don’t know what you’re saying, you’re not asking, you’re not praising, and you’re not serving.

Each berachah is a world. Each word is a diamond that must be cut and polished—over and over.

Real tefillah is like the work of a diamond cutter. You sharpen, you shape, you polish. And even when the diamond doesn’t yet shine, you keep cutting—because you know what’s hidden inside.

Sometimes the Answer Is “No”—And That’s Still a Response

Even after 515 prayers, Hashem told Moshe no. But that “no” wasn’t a punishment. It was part of the plan.

Sometimes the answer is “no” not because you don’t deserve it, but because it’s not beneficial for your soul, for your tafkid (purpose), or for the world’s greater design.

Every Jew is a piece of the puzzle of creation. Your job is not to control outcomes. Your job is to:

Connect to Hashem

Keep His Torah

Speak to Him with truth

Everything else—wealth, health, marriage, children, where you live, what you eat—is up to Him.

Your One Tool: The Power of Speech

We were given the gift of dibbur—speech. Not to sell or flatter or perform. But to connect.

Tefillah is the highest use of human speech. It’s the direct line to the Creator.

So whether the answer is yes or no, keep praying. Not because you’re guaranteed results—but because you’re guaranteed a relationship.

Being answered isn’t the goal.
Being connected is.

> אֵיכָה יוּעַם זָהָב, יִשְׁנֶא הַכֶּתֶם הַטּוֹב; תִּשְׁתַּפֵּכְנָה אַבְנֵי קֹדֶשׁ, בְּרֹאשׁ כָּל-חוּצוֹת.
“How the gold is dulled, the fine gold dimmed! Sacred stones are spilled at every street corner.”
— Eicha (Lamentations) 4:1

The Gold Has Not Disappeared — It’s Just Dirty

Yirmiyahu is not lamenting the disappearance of gold — he’s mourning its loss of shine. The Jewish people, once polished by Torah, mitzvot, and divine mission, are now spiritually dulled. The material remains, but the radiance is gone.

A Jew is not valuable because of what he owns, how intelligent he is, or how high he climbs. He shines when he reflects Hashem — when his life is a vessel for Torah, for truth, for kedushah. But when a person turns inward and downward — serving self, serving society’s idols, ignoring Hashem — then he becomes like dirty gold and uncut stones.

Gold that isn’t cleaned becomes dull. A diamond that isn’t cut is just a rock. And a Jew who doesn’t polish his neshama through Torah and avodah is just another body walking the street.

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The Metaphor Continues: Children as Sacred Stones

> בְּנֵי צִיּוֹן הַיְקָרִים, הַמְסֻלָּאִים בַּפָּז — אֵיכָה נֶחְשְׁבוּ, לְנִבְלֵי חֶרֶשׂ, מַעֲשֵׂה יְדֵי יוֹצֵר.
“The precious children of Zion, once valued as pure gold—how they are now thought of as earthen pots, the work of a potter’s hands.”
— Eicha 4:2

Not only have the adults turned from Hashem — the youth, our future, are being treated like clay. Disposable. Replaceable. Stripped of holiness and identity. The sacred stones are no longer in the Beis HaMikdash — they are in the street, kicked and abandoned.

When Torah is no longer the center of Jewish life, our own children suffer. We are raising golden vessels but treating them like broken pottery. And the tragedy is not their fault — it’s ours.

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Takeaways — Real, Raw, and Uncomfortable:

1. Polish Your Soul Like You Polish Gold

No one is born holy. Every neshama needs avodah — real work. Torah, mitzvot, tefillah, mussar, humility. That’s the polish. Ignore it, and your shine fades. You’ll still be gold — but no one will see it, not even you.

2. Don’t Settle for “Raw Material”

Rough diamonds are worthless until cut. Unformed potential means nothing until it’s shaped by Torah. The purpose of life is not to be “good” — it’s to be Godly. That takes work.

3. Idols Come in Many Forms

Today’s avodah zarah isn’t always statues — it’s fame, comfort, intellect, success, even philanthropy when it’s ego-driven. If you justify avoiding mitzvos by replacing them with your own definitions of “meaning,” you’re serving yourself — not Hashem.

4. You Can Be a Sacred Stone Again

Even scattered, gold can be recovered. Even soiled stones can be polished. No Jew is too far. No soul is too dirty. But the work begins with honesty: you must admit you’ve dulled, and decide to shine again.

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Final Thought

Hashem never said we must be perfect. But He demands that we polish, refine, and rise. The saddest thing is not a broken Jew — it’s a dull one who doesn’t care to shine again.

Return. Reflect. Reconnect. Become gold again.

דֶּרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה – The Upright Path

רַבִּי אוֹמֵר:
אֵיזוֹ הִיא דֶּרֶךְ יְשָׁרָה שֶׁיָּבוֹר לוֹ הָאָדָם?
כָּל שֶׁהִיא תִפְאֶרֶת לְעוֹשֶׂיהָ וְתִפְאֶרֶת לוֹ מִן הָאָדָם.
(Ethics of the Fathers 2:1)

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 Summary Teaching

> “Choose the path that brings honor to yourself and earns the respect of others — not just what is allowed, but what is truly good in God’s eyes. Serve Hashem using your own personality and gifts, and respect others who do the same. True greatness walks humbly and wisely — with balance, dignity, and kindness.”

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 Key Points in Brief:

Balance is the key. Rambam teaches the “golden mean” — avoid extremes, walk the middle path of wisdom, generosity, humility, and control.

Not all good paths look the same. Every person is created differently. As Chassidic masters taught: כְּשֵׁם שֶׁפָּנִים שׁוֹנוֹת – דֵּעוֹת שׁוֹנוֹת. Just as faces differ, so do life paths. Respect legitimate differences in Avodas Hashem.

More than what’s permitted — ask what is fitting. Like Aharon HaKohen, even if something is technically allowed, the deeper question is: “הֲיִיטַב בְּעֵינֵי ה׳?” – Will it be good in Hashem’s eyes?

The ultimate derech yesharah: A path that is refined inwardly and admired outwardly — one that reflects both personal sincerity and communal dignity.

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爵 Reflection

This Mishnah doesn’t just teach halacha — it teaches how to live.

It’s not enough to “follow the rules.” You must also ask:

> ❓ Is this who I want to be?
❓ Is this the kind of Yid Hashem wants me to be?
❓ Would someone else say: That’s a person I respect — and that’s a Torah Jew?

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 Live Upright. Walk with Dignity. Serve with Truth.

> “כָּל שֶׁהִיא תִפְאֶרֶת לְעוֹשֶׂיהָ וְתִפְאֶרֶת לוֹ מִן הָאָדָם.”
A path that brings inner beauty and earns outer respect.

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 Pirkei Avos – timeless truths in a few words. Let it guide your day.

The claim of Klal Yisrael to Eretz Yisrael is not subject to the approval of the world, international courts, or even internal consensus. It is not about politics, diplomacy, or public relations. It is rooted in one eternal reality: Hashem is the Creator and Owner of the world, and He gave Eretz Yisrael to His people.

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1. Why the Torah Begins with Creation

The Torah begins with:

> בְּרֵאשִׁית בָּרָא אֱלֹקִים אֵת הַשָּׁמַיִם וְאֵת הָאָרֶץ

Rashi, quoting R’ Yitzchak, asks: Why not begin the Torah with the first mitzvah, which is:

> הַחֹדֶשׁ הַזֶּה לָכֶם (שמות י״ב:ב׳)

Instead, it begins with Creation to teach the pasuk:

> כֹּחַ מַעֲשָׂיו הִגִּיד לְעַמּוֹ לָתֵת לָהֶם נַחֲלַת גּוֹיִם (תהילים קי״א:ו׳)

So that if the nations of the world say to Israel:
“You are thieves, you conquered the land of the seven nations!”,
Israel will answer:

> כָּל הָאָרֶץ שֶׁל הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא; הוּא בְּרָאָהּ וּנְתָנָהּ לַאֲשֶׁר יָשָׁר בְּעֵינָיו. בִּרְצוֹנוֹ נְתָנָהּ לָהֶם, וּבִרְצוֹנוֹ נְטָלָהּ מֵהֶם וּנְתָנָהּ לָנוּ.

This is not emotional. It’s not political. It’s not historical.
It’s truth — because Hashem said so.

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2. Ibn Ezra: Moshe’s Yearning Was a Teaching Tool

Ibn Ezra (on דברים ג׳:כ״ד) explains that Moshe’s heartfelt tefillah to enter Eretz Yisrael was not only personal. He wanted to teach the nation how deeply one must love the Land. His longing was meant to inspire חיבת הארץ in the people before they entered.

He understood that the success of their mitzvah observance depended on their emotional bond to the Land. Without that love, they would lose their foothold.

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3. Sefer HaChareidim: Chavivus Is Part of the Mitzvah

Sefer HaChareidim (ch. 59) teaches that the mitzvah of יישוב ארץ ישראל includes חביבות ארץ ישראל — to actively cherish and yearn for the Land. It is not enough to live there passively. One must desire it, feel connected to it, and recognize its spiritual elevation.

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4. Al HaRishonim: Not for Scenery, but for Shechinah

> “Not a love for the physical beauty of Eretz Yisrael, but rather a love for the spirituality and special closeness with Hashem that exists in Eretz Yisrael more than in any other place.”

That’s why the Torah says:

> אֶרֶץ אֲשֶׁר עֵינֵי ה׳ אֱלֹקֶיךָ בָּהּ, מֵרֵשִׁית הַשָּׁנָה וְעַד אַחֲרִית שָׁנָה (דברים י״א:י״ב)

Eretz Yisrael is unique not because of its climate or landscape — but because it is the place where Hashem’s Presence and supervision are most revealed.

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5. Why Moshe Was Not Allowed to Enter

Had Moshe Rabbeinu led Bnei Yisrael into the Land and established its foundation, then any future sin would have demanded complete destruction — not exile. There would be no allowance for failure. A nation brought in by Moshe would be held to an absolute standard.

Hashem, in His mercy, denied Moshe entry so that Klal Yisrael could survive even when it fails.
Exile would remain an option. Annihilation would not.
Better to lose the Land temporarily than to lose the nation eternally.

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6. We Are Not in Israel for Safety or Utility

And that is why the spiritual life in Eretz Yisrael is the primary purpose.

We are not there because we were refugees after the war. We are not there because no one else would take us. That is not the reason. There are plenty of places in the world Jews can live — the U.S., Canada, Australia. Those who think Israel is just another Western democracy — a place to build, work, manufacture, and “live like everyone else” — are mistaken.

To live in Eretz Yisrael correctly requires Torah, emunah, and hashkafah yesharah. Not just tefillin and Shabbos — but a clear understanding that this land is different, and we are different.

Sadly, many living in Israel today — including even some religious Jews — are confused about why they’re there. They think it’s about security, nationalism, or cultural pride. That warped, modern Zionistic idea is empty and false.

We are in Eretz Yisrael only because Hashem allows us to be there, and only to serve as a shining example of what a true life in His service looks like. The Jewish people in Eretz Yisrael are meant to reflect קדושה, משפט, and דרך ה׳ — to live as the model that brings the world toward Geulah and Olam Haba.

That is why we want to be there — when Hashem says so, and under His guidance — not to feel “safe,” but to live meaningfully, truthfully, and spiritually aligned with our mission.

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Conclusion: We Don’t Need Permission — Except From Hashem

Our right to Eretz Yisrael is not subject to permission from the U.N., the European Union, or the world. But neither is it subject to our own choice. We don’t go when we want. We don’t stay because we decide. We are there — or not — only if Hashem allows it.

If He allows us to live there — it is because He permits it.
If He throws us out — that too is by His decree.

Those who believe that our presence in Eretz Yisrael today is based on secular legality or political sovereignty are deeply mistaken. That is not the permission Rashi refers to. The permission to live in Eretz Yisrael is from the Creator alone. Everything else is an illusion.

Living there in a secular, nationalistic way — governed by Western ideologies and stripped of Torah values — is not a return to the Land of our forefathers. It is not גאולה. It is not the redemption we were promised.

It is no different than Jews settling in the Netherlands, Australia, or Taiwan — places where Hashem may let us live for a time. But once the Torah disappears from our lives, and mitzvot become optional, and chilul Hashem becomes normalized — Eretz Yisrael becomes just another polluted land.

To insist that we belong there no matter what, even when Hashem is ignored, Torah is violated, and morality is redefined — is not a zechut. It is a chilul Eretz Yisrael.

We Are Guests of the King

We do not own the Land.
We are guests — and the Host is watching.

Let no one misunderstand:

> הוּא נָתַן. הוּא נוֹטֵל. וְרַק הוּא מַחְזִיר.

Until we fulfill the Torah’s vision — until we are what Hashem intended us to be —
we are still in galut, even inside the Land.

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פרשת דברים is always read on the שבת before תשע באב, and there is a well-established מנהג to chant the verse:

אֵיכָה אֶשָּׂא לְבַדִּי טָרְחֲכֶם וּמַשָּׂאֲכֶם וְרִיבְכֶם
Eichah essa levadi torchachem u-masa’achem v’rivchem
How can I alone bear your troubles, your burdens, and your disputes?
— דברים א:יב

This פסוק is read to the mournful tune of מגילת איכה, evoking national mourning and deep reflection.

At first glance, it’s puzzling. Why is משה רבינו‘s complaint considered negative? Aren’t we meant to bring our issues to a רב, a דיין, or a בית דין? Isn’t that the right thing?

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The Insight of the ספורנו

The ספורנו explains that the problem wasn’t bringing disputes to Moshe. It was the constant stream of complaints and the trivial nature of those complaints. Their preoccupation with petty matters reflected a distorted outlook. Rather than preparing spiritually to enter ארץ ישראל, they fixated on their discomforts in the מדבר.

Instead of focusing on their miraculous journey and the upcoming entry into the Land, they lost themselves in negativity. משה רבינו felt overwhelmed — not because of the workload, but because of their lack of spiritual perspective and the burden of their small-mindedness.

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A Message for בין המצרים

As we live through the שלושת השבועות — the Three Weeks of בין המצרים — we are reminded of the same root issue: pettiness, distraction, and losing sight of the bigger goal.

The רמח”ל, in the opening of מסילת ישרים, writes that our entire purpose in this world is to earn our share in the עולם הבא. With that perspective, we must reconsider what truly matters and where our efforts belong.

In these days of בין המצרים, we must recognize that no matter how much we possess, we are still in גלות. We are without the בית המקדש, without clarity, and too often without unity.

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Staying Focused on Redemption

Let us not fall into the same trap as that generation in the מדבר. Let us not become consumed by personal grievances or entitlements. Let us refocus on the mission of גאולה — spiritual refinement, national unity, and rebuilding our relationship with השם.

Our goal is not comfort, ego, or worldly success. Our goal is the גאולה שלמה and the rebuilding of the בית המקדש השלישי.

May we be זוכים to transition from אֵיכָה — the cry of “how could this be?” — to כה — the presence and word of השם, as the מדרש says: when we merit, אֵיכָה will be transformed into כה.

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Proverbs 17:1 – “Better a dry piece of bread with peace than a house full of sacrifices with strife.”
Proverbs 16:32 – “He who is slow to anger is better than a strong man, and a master of his passions than a conqueror of a city.”
Proverbs 16:33 – “When the lot is cast into the lap, its entire judgment is from Hashem.”

These three verses from Mishlei (Proverbs) weave together a powerful message about strength, peace, and the hidden hand of God in our lives. Each verse builds on the others to form a portrait of what true greatness looks like—not in outward power, but in inward discipline.

1. True Strength Lies in Self-Control

The world respects those who conquer cities, win battles, or gain wealth. But the Torah teaches us that the one who conquers his anger and controls his impulses is even greater. A person who is slow to anger restrains himself until clarity and wisdom return. A master of his passions goes even further—he no longer even wants to strike back. According to the commentaries, such inner mastery is rarer and more praiseworthy than any external victory.

2. Peace Is More Valuable Than Prosperity

Even a poor home with peace is greater than a mansion full of noise, tension, and spiritual decay. A dry crust of bread shared in tranquility is more blessed than rich feasts marred by strife. Hashem does not dwell in places of conflict, even if they are filled with offerings. According to Rashi and the Malbim, Hashem prefers a Temple reduced to ruins—if it is free of sin—over one that functions outwardly but is filled with fighting and division.

3. Hashem Guides Even the Seemingly Random

The verse about casting lots teaches us a deep truth: even events that appear random or left to chance are completely orchestrated by Hashem. Whether the decision falls by a goral (lot) or through the hands of men, the final judgment is determined by Heaven. Nothing is truly accidental. The outcome is known and directed by Hashem, even when hidden from our eyes.

4. A Unified Message of Moral Leadership

Rav Yonah explains that these verses are all linked. They teach how to live among people, how to avoid strife, and how to put our trust in divine judgment. The real leader is not the one who overpowers others, but the one who restrains himself, seeks peace, and knows when to let go of control and let Hashem guide the outcome.

Conclusion

The Torah’s definition of greatness challenges every modern instinct. It is not wealth, power, or reputation that make someone great. It is:

The ability to wait before reacting.

The choice to preserve peace even when you have the upper hand.

The faith to know that you are not in control—and that’s exactly as it should be.

This is strength. This is greatness. And this is the type of home, community, and leadership where the Shechinah can rest.

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Let me know if you’d like this followed by a related parable, midrash, or halachic insight.

I. Fundamental Beliefs (Chapter 1A)

Many people are fond of saying, “Life is not fair.”

Such a statement is the merest step from heresy, even blasphemy, because if life is not fair, then the Creator of life is not fair. A believing Jew knows that everything Hashem does is calculated with precision, even though there is much that is beyond human comprehension.

Ramban begins his introduction to the Book of Job by stating an essential principle of Jewish faith: God knows and controls the lower species generally and specifically. Also, the Creator observes and supervises human beings, regarding whether they do good or evil, and whether they should attain success and fulfillment or pain and mishap. Anyone who claims that whatever befalls them is happenstance, and not the will and intent of the Creator, is a heretic and has no share in the World to Come.

Thus, Ramban unequivocally makes two fundamental points:
(a) God is aware of everything;
(b) He rewards and punishes according to each person’s deeds.

Once this faith is firmly rooted in our minds and hearts, we can accept the Torah as the word of Hashem and grow from its commandments.

People of absolute faith see the hand of God in everything. Not that they understand why He dictated one course rather than another, but they know with certainty that He willed it to be and that He had a constructive, merciful purpose in doing what He did.

A thoroughly unanticipated election outcome, economic catastrophe, or medical result should have been enough to convince us that we are not in control. But that very seldom happens. Instead, people retreat to analysis, technology, and logic — refusing to acknowledge Divine will in what appears unpredictable.

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II. Introduction to the Unified Force

1. In Torah Judaism, the Satan is not a rival to God nor a force of independent evil. Rather, he is a malach (angel), a spiritual messenger tasked with fulfilling a crucial role in Hashem’s divine system of free will, justice, and personal growth.

2. The Gemara states:
הוא יצר הרע, הוא השטן, הוא מלאך המוות
“He is the Evil Inclination, he is the Satan, he is the Angel of Death.” (Bava Basra 16a)

3. This means a single, divinely-created angel plays all three roles: tempting (Yetzer Hara), accusing (Satan), and executing (Malach HaMaves).

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III. The Satan – Heavenly Prosecutor

4. “Satan” (שָׂטָן) means opposer. He is the heavenly prosecutor, not an enemy of God.

5. In the Book of Job, he appears before Hashem and must get permission to test Iyov — showing that he operates within divine authority.

6. His role is necessary for moral accountability and the framework of reward and punishment.

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IV. The Yetzer Hara – Internal Conflict

7. The Yetzer Hara is not evil — it is man’s drive toward ego, indulgence, and self-serving instincts.

8. Chazal say: “If not for the Yetzer Hara, a person would not build a house, marry, or engage in business.” (Bereishis Rabbah 9:7)

9. The Yetzer Hara is the internal form of the same angel, providing real temptation and struggle.

10. The Rambam teaches that moral greatness lies in resisting and mastering one’s inner drives.

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V. The Malach HaMaves – The Final Executor

11. The Malach HaMaves arrives at the end of the judgment process. He is not a grim reaper, but a servant completing a divine task.

12. First the angel tempts, then accuses, and finally executes. All one angel, from start to finish.

13. His presence reminds us that life is temporary and every choice is accountable.

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VI. The Satan in History and Language (Expanded)

14. The first historic introduction to Satan in the Torah is the snake who entices Chava (Eve) to eat from the Tree of Knowledge. This act introduces the Yetzer Hara into the human being.

15. Before this event, man was spiritually balanced. The inclination toward good or evil was external — a matter of correct action versus incorrect action.

16. But after Adam and Chava’s sin, the evil inclination entered human nature. Moral clarity became clouded, and man began to experience inner conflict.

17. From that moment, the role of Satan expanded. He no longer only opposes externally — he resides within man, influencing thought, desire, and choice.

18. This internalization of opposition was so profound that the Torah commands a special korban (sacrifice) on Yom Kippur — the scapegoat sent to “Azazel” — a gift of sorts to the adversary.

19. The nature of this ritual is mystical and difficult to fully explain. But its presence in the holiest day of the year shows how serious the spiritual opposition has become — and how deeply embedded it is in the human condition.

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VII. Theological Perspective – A Servant, Not a Rival

20. Satan is not an evil competitor to Hashem. He is a loyal servant with an unpleasant but necessary job.

21. “I created the Evil Inclination, and I created the Torah as its antidote.” (Kiddushin 30b)

22. Free will only exists when there is resistance. Satan’s job is to provide that resistance — and thus make reward meaningful.

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VIII. Man’s Battle and Responsibility

23. Each person lives in a moral battlefield. The Yetzer Hara seduces, the Satan prosecutes, and the Malach HaMaves concludes.

24. But we are given Torah, mitzvos, and teshuvah as tools to win the fight.

25. “Who is strong? One who conquers his Yetzer.” (Avos 4:1)

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IX. Reish Lakish’s Scriptural Proof

26. Reish Lakish says: “He is the Satan, he is the Evil Inclination, he is the Angel of Death.” (Bava Basra 16a)

a) Prosecutor: “And the Satan departed from before Hashem.” (Iyov 1:12)

b) Yetzer Hara: “Only evil all day long.” (Bereishis 6:5)

c) Angel of Death: “Only spare his life.” (Iyov 2:6)

Three stages. One entity.

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X. The Satan Slaughtered – End of Days

27. Succah 52a teaches: At the End of Days, Hashem will slaughter the Yetzer Hara.

28. The righteous will weep: “How did we overcome such a mountain?”
The wicked will weep: “How did we fall before such a thread?”

29. Michtav MeEliyahu explains: resistance strengthens temptation — the battle is real and progressive.

30. The wicked never fought at all. Their shame will be unbearable.

31. When Divine truth is revealed, the Satan’s job will be complete. He will joyfully step aside — mission accomplished.

32. Iyov is the proof. A human being can withstand suffering and conquer the Satan.

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Conclusion

The Satan, Yetzer Hara, and Malach HaMaves are one.

Not evil. Not rogue. Not in rebellion.

They are servants of Hashem, tasked with testing, accusing, and closing accounts — so that man can rise and earn his eternal greatness.

1. Words Are Cheap, Emunah Is Expensive

( Emunah= included Bitochan)

In every generation, the Yetzer Hara adapts. Today, he hides in spiritual language. In communities of Torah and chesed, people speak beautifully about emunah — about trust in Hashem, surrender, detachment from money, and living with clarity of faith. They quote the Chazon Ish, the Chovos Halevavos, and the Ramban on bitachon. Some even take pride in publicly declaring their belief that Hashem provides everything, and that one need not worry or chase wealth.

But when that faith is tested — not in theory, but in the real, raw moment when a fellow Jew approaches and asks for help — something happens. The same mouths that spoke of trust and generosity now shift to rationalizing why they cannot give:
“I’ve already given my ma’aser,” they say.
“I’m supporting other Torah causes.”
“I must save for future obligations.”

And yet, these very people have no hesitation to fund personal trips, remodel homes, buy new suits, or even donate large sums to prestigious Torah institutions — where their name might appear on a plaque or banquet journal.

2. Public Preaching, Private Withholding

Let’s be clear: ma’aser is a floor, not a ceiling. It is the beginning of a Jew’s financial responsibility, not the end. The true baal emunah doesn’t calculate his generosity to the penny while he lives in comfort. He gives because he knows it’s not his to begin with. He gives because he believes in the Giver of the wealth. And when he speaks of faith, it’s not a shield to deflect responsibility — it’s the wellspring from which his compassion flows.

There’s a dishonesty — even a betrayal — in loudly proclaiming faith and trust while living with excessive caution, self-indulgence, and rigid boundaries on generosity. If you truly live with Hashem, then when someone in pain stands in front of you, you respond as if Hashem is standing behind him — watching, listening, waiting to see what your emunah really means.

3. True Faith Is Proven in the Quiet, Costly Deed

The test of faith isn’t in the drasha. It’s not in the WhatsApp status with a quote from Rebbe Nachman or the Ramchal. It’s in the day someone you don’t owe comes to you, in need. And it’s inconvenient. And you already gave. And you don’t have a cheshbon ready. Then — if you dig into your pocket, your heart, and your comfort — that’s emunah.

It was the Novardoker Mussar giants who used to say: “A person who speaks emunah but clings to his money has built a palace with no foundation.” If your public image is built on words of faith, then your life must be built on acts of generosity. Otherwise, your words are noise — worse, they become falsehood.

4. Live the Way You Speak

If you’re going to speak about trust in Hashem, then live that way. If you encourage others to let go, then be the first to let go of your grip on your money. If you teach that Hashem will provide, then be that vehicle of Hashem’s provision when someone asks. The same people who talk about “letting go” often only do so when it doesn’t cost them. That’s not emunah. That’s performance.

Real emunah doesn’t need applause. It doesn’t need to justify. It gives. It helps. It acts.

5. Don’t Judge the Seeker — That’s Not Your Role

Even among those who speak often and beautifully about emunah, there is a troubling trend. They publicly encourage trust in Hashem, they inspire others to live with bitachon, and their words have uplifted many — and that’s a great thing. They should continue spreading that message.

But this chapter is here to remind them: when you preach faith, people will come to you. People in pain. People in need. And very often, people who also lack that very faith you’re encouraging. Some are broken. Some are destitute. Some are simply weak in emunah — but that’s why they’re coming to you. Because you claim to be strong.

And I heard a heartbreaking statement from one very wealthy man — a man known to give generously — who was approached by a Jew in need. The man dismissed the request by saying, “Why should I help him? Let him stay in Eretz Yisroel and work on his emunah.”

That is a perversion of daas Torah.

Yes, it is true that every Jew must strengthen himself in bitachon. Yes, we all must rise up spiritually. But you — the one with abundance, the one who is admired and emulated — you are not allowed to judge someone else’s spiritual level when he comes to you for help.

Chazal say clearly: “Al tadin es chavercha ad shetagia limkomo — Do not judge your fellow until you reach his place.”
And the truth is — you never will. You didn’t grow up in his home. You didn’t suffer what he suffered. You don’t live with his struggles, his education, his wiring, his loneliness, his traumas. You cannot speak as if you do.

Even if you give half your wealth to tzedakah, even if you’ve donated millions, even if you have an entire kollel learning in your name — if you can give $50,000 without blinking, and someone broken stands before you and asks — you don’t have the right to say, “He should have bitachon and not come to me.”

You are not Hashem.
And in that moment, Hashem may have sent him to you — to see if you believe in Him.

So many forget: Giving is not about the recipient’s worthiness. It’s about your faith. It’s not about whether the poor man is holy enough. It’s about whether you are.

Let us never forget that even our own acts of faith can become tests of pride. The more you talk emunah, the more you’re obligated to live it. With open hands. With a soft heart. Without judgment.

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Conclusion: Faith Without Action Is Fraud

Emunah is not in your head. It’s in your hand, in your checkbook, in your time. It’s when someone cries out to you and your answer is “Hineni” — here I am, even if it’s inconvenient, even if no one will know. That is the faith that Hashem sees and cherishes. That is the faith that builds a nation.

The Torah Jew is not defined by eloquence or public persona. He is defined by his actions when no one is watching. When someone knocks on his door, or approaches him quietly after shul, or writes a letter with trembling hands — the test of emunah is not in the delay, not in the calculation, not in the percentage. It is in the immediate willingness to carry someone else’s burden.

Rav Yisroel Salanter said: “The material needs of another Jew are your spiritual responsibilities.” If you truly live with faith, that means you see your bank account not as your fortress, but as your mission. You see your extra not as luxury, but as obligation.

Stop judging. Start giving. Stop preaching. Start living. Speak less. Do more.

Because when you meet Hashem after 120, He will not ask how many times you quoted the Chazon Ish on bitachon. He will ask how many people walked away from you with dignity because you had the chance to help — and you did.

Everything else is just noise.